Sunday, November 15, 2009

And The Dating Game begins...

A lot has happened since I last blogged. I have moved back to Maryland to start my life over. I had to make a difficult decision, either stay and be unhappy or leave and start over while I still can. I chose leave and start over and be happy again. It is not easy to leave everything behind and start over. I owe so much gratitude to all of my wonderful friends and family! Without their support these past few months, I would have never been able to make it. I am so blessed to have theses amazing people in my life! And with that I will begin a new start and new topic in my blog:

The dating game. Everyone talks about it, some people refuse it exists and I have not been in it for years. One can try to avoid it and say it doesn't exist, but somehow, sadly, it does. I have decided to start blogging about my adventures with my new life and game.

A friend told me the other day that I have to play the game. I told him that I'm too old for games and laughed. Somehow, I think he is right. I'm sure life would be so much easier if we didn't have to go through all theses trials and tribulations, but sadly(sigh) we do.

The main topic I have come across is the accessible subject. Don't be too accessible! Everyone warns. You will seem too eager, he won't get the chase he wants, he will think you are desperate. So how accessible should we be? It seems that we have to draw a fine line between off the radar map and interested.

More to come...

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